A parenting plan explains how separated or divorced parents will share time and decisions. Detailed plans reduce conflict and give children stability.
Key sections
- Residential schedule and exchanges.
- Holidays, birthdays and vacations.
- Decision-making on education, health and religion.
- Communication between parents and with the child.
- Transportation and travel.
- Relocation and notice.
- Dispute resolution, such as mediation.
Tips
- Focus on the child's needs and age.
- Be specific about times and places.
- Plan for changes as the child grows.
- Agree on how to share expenses.
- Include a review date.
Court approval
Many courts require a parenting plan and approve one that serves the child's best interests. Agreed plans are often incorporated into the court order. Safety concerns require special provisions.
Get help
Mediators, family law attorneys and court self-help centers can assist. See our guides to child custody and custody modification.
Frequently asked questions
Can we change it later?
Yes by agreement and court approval, or through the court if circumstances change.
What if one parent violates it?
You may ask the court to enforce the order.